The Dos and Don’ts of Expressing your Unique Afro Style

In a world where natural hair continues to make powerful statements, knowing how to care for and style your afro is more than just hair care—it’s self-care. Whether you’re newly natural or have been rocking afro crown for years, this guide will help you navigate your afro hair journey with confidence and style.

Growing up in Lagos, Nigeria, Sunday evenings meant one thing – sitting on a small stool while Mama styled my hair. Between the “stay stills” and the “it’s too tights,” I dreamed of the day I’d get a relaxer like Sandra from my high school. But Mama would always say, “Ọmọ mi, your hair is your crown. Why would you want to wear someone else’s?”

Years later, after the school hair cards, the rebellious phases, and finally embracing my natural texture in university, I understood what she meant. This guide is for every Afro queen who’s heard “your hair is too big” or “when are you going to manage it?”

Together, let’s transform how we wear our crowns.

THE DO’S 👑

Understand Your Curl Pattern
Know your hair type (3A to 4C) to choose suitable products and styles. This foundation helps you build an effective routine that actually works for your texture.

1. Moisturize Strategically
   Apply products to damp hair, focusing on sections. This method ensures even distribution and maximum absorption, keeping your afro hydrated and bouncy.
2. Protect While You Sleep
   Use a silk/satin bonnet or pillowcase nightly. This simple habit reduces friction, prevents moisture loss, and maintains your style longer.
3. Document Your Journey
   Take monthly progress photos and notes. Tracking changes helps you identify what works and motivates you to maintain healthy hair practices.
4. Schedule Regular Maintenance
   Book consistent trims every 8-12 weeks. Regular maintenance prevents split ends from traveling up the hair shaft and maintains your style’s shape.

THE DON’TS 🚫

1. Skip Patch Tests
   Never apply new products directly to your whole head. Test on a small section first to avoid potential allergic reactions or damage.
2. Overload With Products
   Resist using multiple new products simultaneously. This makes it impossible to identify what works and can lead to product buildup.
3. Tight Styling
   Avoid extremely tight protective styles. Those perfect Ghana weaving lines aren’t worth losing your edges over.
4. Neglect Deep Conditioning
   Don’t skip deep conditioning sessions. Even if you’re running late for owambe, this essential step prevents dryness and maintains hair elasticity.
5. Compare Your Journey
   Stop measuring your progress against others. Whether you’re team 4C or 3C, every afro has its own unique beauty and growth pattern.